Grief Touches Everyone

During these devastating times and following Good Friday everyone worldwide is being touched by grief. Family members are not allowed to be in the hospital with their loved ones. Doctors, nurses & medical staff are fighting to save lives and trying to reassure their families. Thankfully the Bible reminds us that Jesus resurrection is coming tomorrow! There will be no more grief, instead we will celebrate knowing we will be reunited with our loved ones again!

For those of us who have experienced the death of our children witnessing all the death from this virus may be a reminder of your own grief & all you endured. It may even be a reminder of your resilience as you look back & realize how far you've come. Knowing you can overcome anything because you have dealt with this type of loss.

How can we help those who are grieving when we can no longer console each other and can no longer meet together in support groups?

Matthew 5:4

Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

Friends I encourage you to find a way to stay connected with each other, reach out to those who are struggling. Whether you text, call, Facetime, setup Skype or Zoom chat meetings. Get creative! Extend your love to family & friends so they can feel the support during this time of grief, especially in these isolating times.

Galatians 6:2 Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.

Having the Bereaved Parents of the USA support group was critical for me moving beyond my grief. Hearing how others handled their grief taught me valuable lessons as I gained new perspectives from their experiences.

Share with me what helped you the most when you dealt with your grief?

You may be in the midst of your grief now, you are not able to see how we could possibly celebrate anything. You may even feel overwhelmed at times. Can I assure you that the intense pain & tears will eventually subside? What helped me the most was focusing on the blessings that came from my child's life. I thought about how blessed I was to have Nathan even though his time with us was brief. The joy he brought into our lives. I met parents through our support group who became family to us.

What are the special things you remember about your child? His/her smile? Things they said or did? I hope you will share your thoughts!

If you are not able to see anything good right now, it's okay. You just need to be patient with yourself and your grief. Allow your tears to fall because they are a part of your healing process.

Your challenge today is to do something that honors your child or loved one.

John 11:25-26 Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life, He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?"

Written by: Jill Theriault

Crossroads Coaching - @crossroadscoachingongodstime